My Mom had decided to not answer her phone – she lives alone, and is in reasonably good health, but there are reasons to worry when she doesn’t answer the phone or call back sometime during the day. My sister, who lives close by, would go and check on her but she’s out of town until tomorrow night. My Mom has in the past arbitrarily decided that she is mad at someone and that is her reason for ignoring the phone – when we finally reach her she gets very upset (read, angry) at the thought of us being worried and checking up on her (meaning…is she so old that we have to check and worry? – yes…) This of course does not work two ways – I have to check in daily or give a reason ahead of time (sort of like school) ever since I wound up in hospital eight years ago (to be fair, there has been a few emergency visits since, so I sort of understand her worry – but Mike would be sure to tell if there was a problem).
All day yesterday she was not answering her phone, and without my sister I was worried – although I knew deep down she was likely fine and just doing her thing. A sleepless night, then waking up and realizing I had a few hours until I could phone her after 8:00. So – I pieced. A charm square table runner.
I phoned at 8:15 and she answered – I calmly explained that I was worried that she hadn`t answered her phone, or called back, yesterday. She says, “oh, that`s sweet….you know that area that`s being rebuilt near my home, they have lovely stores….“ and she launches into a story about her shopping adventures, purchase of a new bench for her hall, and blah blah blah. Not an apology or explanation. Again, this is typical of her and I fell for it 🙂
So mad at myself – I should know better – I quilted that table runner – and its lovely! It will always be a reminder to me to not worry when there`s nothing to be done – except quilt, lol.